Are they worth it in the end??? Have you ever gone through something where you felt closure is needed in order to move forward?? I went through an unnecessary situation back last summer and as time, anger and disgust went by.....I started to learn the whole situation was totally blown out of proportion....Largely due to outsiders. I've reached a point in my life where its way beyond time to let go of the petty shit we all deal with. I've also learned not everyone is capable of moving forward and letting go!!!
I've decided on this one situation, I will TRY to make amends with the individual and address all the issues that circle this one situation. Am I trying to rekindle old relationships???? No, I'm trying to be the grown woman I am and finally put the dumb shit of the past to bed!!! Will I reject the option of rekindling old relationships??? Not at all....The past is the past & that's where it should stay!!! However, I won't force something that's not meant to be....This process is more about clearing the air and moving on.
I agree with your whole process. I feel you need to amends and move on. I was in this situation not too long ago myself as you know...LOL I made amends said my peace and now Im moving on. Once you did your part, there is nothing else you can do. LET IT GO... Im growing and can't let other people inpressions of me get the best of me..I know who I am and the people who really care know me 2..m
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